#SELF_CLARIFICATION - HOW TO BE A GENTLEMAN

  Many have we seen who behave as if they are trying to achieve a perfect personality but as we all know it's not that easy to change oneself so to understand one's thoughts, let's discuss the character.

Changing ourselves to a good personality may be referred as becoming a gentleman but it really needs a lot of effort which we may not feel, using for it. I mean why should one waste time in trying to get a character which will just change ourselves, many times we find ourselves in those difficult situations which are not easy to be solved for this we blame others but we should imagine keeping ourselves in those problems, we may actually do better than previous so, this teaches us to take into consideration that the fault is always not in them, but us, which we should change.

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Being a true gentleman means someone who is always gentle in his ways, and that to, too a far extent. He/She is someone who knows best how to control himself or herself at times when people lose hold of themselves. Bringing these changes may be easier if you're under 18 because many children are those who till then have not to build a particular personality and therefore can change themselves easily if they feel the need of it. First and the most important characteristics of a gentleman is this that he is always alert, not in the sense of consciousness but of his surrounding. Whenever they feel the need of using their intelligence and problem-solving skills for helping others or for taking them out of problems they don't wait for somebody else to do it but directly come forward to help. Secondly, they get into a character of never reporting to small problems which can be easily solved by themselves just by a little thinking and attention. But, if they are continuously being deceived or cheated by others they fight for themselves and win the war with respect or die a good death, However, the former is most likely to happen. For changing your personality to a better one I would suggest you if you are between 17-21 you should get into a particular personality as soon as possible because this is the period when one makes friends, breaks up with them, loses all his/her hopes, gets to understand the world in a better way and these are the years when one gets a particular personality (Sometimes this may happen to kids but not always) so make sure you adapt with a character in these days because if you don't then it may take you longer afterward However nothing is so impossible which can't be achieved in so big life, so be it, if you try then you can later on also. Being a gentleman means helping everybody in their problems even if they are your mean friends, but also, not being too helpful because that will start making oneself look boring and the person will start losing his fame and spark in the society where is currently living.

Below are some tips which I hope will help you in your journey make sure you don't try too hard to get those in your characters just wander with the next idea and you will succeed in getting those in your personality.

#1 VOCABULARY MATTERS: When I was small and was asked about my views and experiences I was never completely able to make my listeners get attracted towards my sentences and I was therefore forced to make them move on further with a dejected mind, Why? Because my sentences were not proper and words were not worth listening to it which I realized later on and therefore started doing all those things which I could to make my dictionary better and one of them which really helped me was reading books by remarkable authors.

#2 HIDE YOUR PERSONALITY: Having a good vocabulary is good but make sure by that you never tell all of your stories because once they know you completely they will stop coming to you because there's no reason why they should. Where there is mystery there is imagination but if there isn't anything to know, why should one waste his/her time knowing nothing. However, if they already know you, but still want to be attractive, try coming up with new stories and talents but don't reveal them by yourselves. Wait for it. Others will do that.

#3 NEVER BOAST OF YOUR SUCCESSES: When you came into possession of people who always keep rewarding their successes and their properties, instead of doing the same, one should just walk away by telling them why you did not stay any longer. These were just a few tips but if you have more you can add them to the list.

These were just few tips but if you have more you can add them to the list. I always suggest everybody read as many books as they can, I can't or neither one personality can tell you all the luxuries of life or things which you should avoid doing in not so distant future [coz' he/she might not know your future] and even if they did they won't make us the best partners or souls of the universe, so If we ourselves find our destinies and what we want to become in future only then will we be able to make the best and the most out of our lives. and if we can read them earlier it would be even better because books are what never fails to teach us something they contain distinguished stories, wonderful incidents, outstanding personalities, and astonishing histories which one may or may not learn in this very fast-paced world where everybody's busy in their daily work. So, if you're young I suggest you start off right at the moment but if by chance you've grown, no worries because once a great philosopher said there's no age for learning.

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